Adults living with this syndrome often exhibit a "web of self-defeating behaviours" rooted in this early programming:
Children in dysfunctional families often lack the needed to resolve natural feelings of shame. When a parent is emotionally unavailable, abusive, or addicted, the child cannot logically blame the adult; instead, they internalise the environment's chaos as a personal defect.
Unlike guilt (feeling you did something bad), shame is the pervasive belief that you are bad, distasteful, or unlovable.
Adults living with this syndrome often exhibit a "web of self-defeating behaviours" rooted in this early programming:
Children in dysfunctional families often lack the needed to resolve natural feelings of shame. When a parent is emotionally unavailable, abusive, or addicted, the child cannot logically blame the adult; instead, they internalise the environment's chaos as a personal defect. The Role of Shame in the Adult Child Syndrome – AZMATH
Unlike guilt (feeling you did something bad), shame is the pervasive belief that you are bad, distasteful, or unlovable. Adults living with this syndrome often exhibit a